DI KETIKA...

Saya suka tulisan ini. Kalau di amati, banyak maksud tersirat dan tersurat yang boleh kita ambil sebagai muhasabah untuk diri kita dan untuk kita fikirkan. Mudah-mudahan memberi manfaat untuk kita yang membacanya. Saya ambil tulisan ini dari blog saudara Redhuan. Terima kasih ye Redhuan. Mari sama-sama kita amati apa yang terkandung dalam tulisan ini.

KETIKA MENCARI CALON
Janganlah mencari isteri, tapi carilah ibu bagi anak-anak kita. Janganlah mencari suami, tapi carilah ayah bagi anak-anak kita.

KETIKA MELAMAR 
Anda bukan sedang meminta kepada orang tua/wali si gadis, tetapi meminta kepada Allah melalui orang tua/wali si gadis.

KETIKA AKAD NIKAH 
Anda berdua bukan menikah di hadapan penghulu,tetapi menikah di hadapan Allah

KETIKA RESEPSI PERNIKAHAN 
Catat dan hitung semua tamu yang datang untuk mendoa'kan anda, kerana anda harus berfikir untuk mengundang mereka semua dan meminta maaf apabila anda berfikir untuk BERCERAI kerana mensia-siakan do'a mereka.

KETIKA MALAM PERTAMA 
Bersyukur dan bersabarlah. Anda adalah sepasang anak manusia dan bukan sepasang malaikat.

KETIKA SELAMA MENEMPUH HIDUP BERKELUARGA 
Sedarilah bahawa jalan yang akan dilalui tidak melalui jalan bertabur bunga, tapi juga semak belukar yang penuh onak dan duri.

KETIKA BIDUK RUMAH TANGGA GOYANG 
Jangan saling berlepas tangan, tapi sebaliknya justru semakin erat berpegang tangan

KETIKA BELUM MEMILIKI ANAK. 
Cintailah isteri atau suami anda 100%

KETIKA TELAH MEMILIKI ANAK. 
Jangan bagi cinta anda kepada (suami) isteri dan anak anda,tetapi cintailah isteri atau suami anda 100% dan cintai anak-anak anda masing-masing 100%.

KETIKA EKONOMI KELUARGA MERUDUM 
Yakinlah bahawa pintu rezeki akan terbuka lebar berbanding lurus dengan tingkat ketaatan suami dan isteri.

KETIKA EKONOMI BERKEMBANG 
Jangan lupa akan jasa pasangan hidup yang setia mendampingi kita semasa menderita

KETIKA ANDA ADALAH SUAMI 
Boleh bermanja-manja kepada isteri tetapi jangan lupa untuk bangkit secara bertanggung jawab apabila isteri memerlukan pertolongan anda.

KETIKA ANDA ADALAH ISTERI 
Tetaplah berjalan dengan gemalai dan lemah lembut, tetapi selalu berhasil menyelesaikan semua pekerjaan.

KETIKA MENDIDIK ANAK 
Jangan pernah berpikir bahawa orang tua yang baik adalah orang tua yang tidak pernah marah kepada anak,kerana orang tua yang baik adalah orang tua yang jujur kepada anak ....

KETIKA ANAK BERMASALAH 
Yakinilah bahawa tidak ada seorang anakpun yang tidak mahu bekerjasama dengan orang tua, yang ada adalah anak yang merasa tidak didengar oleh orang tuanya.

KETIKA ADA PIL. 
Jangan diminum, cukuplah suami, isteri sebagai ubat.

KETIKA INGIN AMAN DAN HARMONIS 
Gunakanlah formula 7 K 
1. Ketaqwaan 
2. Kasih sayang 
3. Kesetiaan 
4. Komunikasi dialogis 
5. Keterbukaan 
6. Kejujuran 
7. Kesabaran

HOW TO 'KILL' YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW

Saya belum berumahtangga. Tapi saya nak kongsikan satu cerita. Cerita ini sesuai untuk orang yang sudah berumahtangga. Tetapi ia lebih sesuai untuk orang yang belum berumahtangga. Kenapa? Supaya mereka dapat mempersiapkan diri sebelum melangkah ke alam rumahtangga. Bukankah itu lebih baik?

Artikel ini saya copy dari Dr. Nur Izah's Weblog. Terima kasih doktor atas perkongsian ini. Semoga memberi manfaat kepada kita semua.

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A long time ago in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn’t get along with her mother-in-law at all.

Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law’s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting.

But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li’s poor husband! d great distress.

Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-! law’s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father’s good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.

She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.

Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, “Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you.”

Li-Li said, “Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do.”Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, “You can’t use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.

Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. “Don’t argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen.” Li-Li was so happy.

She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.

Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper!r, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn’t had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.

The mother-in-law’s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in-law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.

Li-Li’s husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said, “Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She’s changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her.”

Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. “Li-Li, there’s nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her.”

 

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: “The person who loves others will also be loved in return.” God might be trying to work in another person’s life through you.

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Benarlah seperti apa yang diungkapkan oleh Ustaz Hasrizal, ERTI HIDUP PADA MEMBERI. Bila kita memberi 'sesuatu' kepada orang lain, insyaallah kita akan menerima kembali apa yang kita berikan. Jadi mulakan dengan pemberian sebelum kita mengharap orang memberi kepada kita.

BEAUTY OF MATH

Saya suka dengan nombor. Masa zaman sekolah, saya sangat suka subjek Matematik. Tapi kenapa tak jadi akauntan? Hmm entah la. Tapi subjek lain yang ade kaitan dengan matematik saya tak minat. Contohnya fizik, ekonomi, akaun dan sebagainya.

Tengok nombor-nombor kat bawah ni. Cantik sungguh peraturan Allah. Kagum dengan penciptaan Allah.

1 x 8 + 1 = 9
12 x 8 + 2 = 98
123 x 8 + 3 = 987
1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876
12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765
123456 x 8 + 6 = 987654
1234567 x 8 + 7 = 9876543
12345678 x 8 + 8 = 98765432
123456789 x 8 + 9 = 987654321

1 x 9 + 2 = 11
12 x 9 + 3 = 111
123 x 9 + 4 = 1111
1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111
12345 x 9 + 6 = 111111
123456 x 9 + 7 = 1111111
1234567 x 9 + 8 = 11111111
12345678 x 9 + 9 = 111111111
123456789 x 9 +10= 1111111111

9 x 9 + 7 = 88
98 x 9 + 6 = 888
987 x 9 + 5 = 8888
9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888
98765 x 9 + 3 = 888888
987654 x 9 + 2 = 8888888
9876543 x 9 + 1 = 88888888
98765432 x 9 + 0 = 888888888

Brilliant, isn't it?

And look at this symmetry:

1 x 1 = 1
11 x 11 = 121
111 x 111 = 12321
1111 x 1111 = 1234321
11111 x 11111 = 123454321
111111 x 111111 = 12345654321
1111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321
11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321
111111111 x 111111111=12345678987654321

Now, take a look at this....

101%

From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:

What Equals 100%?

What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?

We have all been in situations where someone wants you to 

GIVE OVER 100%.

How about ACHIEVING 101%?

What equals 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help answer these questions:

If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

If:

H-A-R-D-W-O-R- K

8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

And:

K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E

11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

But:

A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E

1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:

L-O-V-E-O-F-G-O-D

12+15+22+5+15+6+7+15+4 = 101%

Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

It's up to you if you share this with your friends & loved ones just the way I did.

Have a nice day & Allah bless !!

THE TRIPLE FILTER TEST

Terima kasih kepada abang saya yang rajin menghantar email-email berguna kepada adiknya yang masih kekurangan ilmu ni. Semoga kita sama-sama dapat mengamalkan apa yang kita cuba sampaikan ini. Insyaallah.

Mari kita sama-sama hayati dan amalkan apa yang terkandung di dalamnya. 3 ujian tapisan.

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Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Keep away from ill-thinking/ suspicions because ill-thinking is the greatest falsehood.” [Sahih Bukhari]

During the Abbasid period one of the scholars in Baghdad was greeted by an acquaintance who said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"

Scholar: "Hold on a minute, before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test."

The Man: "Triple Filter Test?"

Scholar: "That's right, before you talk to me about my friend it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say. That's why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"

The Man: "No, actually I just heard about it and ..."

Scholar: "All right, so you don't really know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?"

The Man: "No, on the contrary..."

Scholar: "So, you want to tell me something bad about him, but you're not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though, because there's one filter left: The filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?"

The Man: "No, not really."

Scholar: "Well, if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"

Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) asks us: "O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh (meat) of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who accepts repentance, the Most Merciful." [Quran 49:12]

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Jadi mari sama-sama kita fikirkan. Adakah kita telah menapis segala percakapan kita? Saya sendiri pun sedar saya selalu bercakap tanpa menapisnya. Betapa pentingnya penapisan ini demi kemaslahatan ummat. Fikir-fikirkan dan bersama-sama kita cuba untuk mengamalkannya. Insyaallah.

AN APPLE TREE

A long time ago, there was a huge tree.

It loved a little boy very much, the boy loved to come and play around it everyday.

He climbed to the treetop.

Ate the apples.

Take a nap under the shadow.

He loved the tree, the tree was so happy.

Time went by....

One day, the boy come back to the tree. The tree said "come and play with me".

"I am no longer o kid, I do not play around a tree anymore". "I want toys. I need money to buy them".

"Sorry but I do not have money...but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So you will have money".

The boy was so excited. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily. The tree was happy.

The boy never come back after picked the apples. The tree was sad.

One day, the boy who now turned into a man returned and the tree was excited. " Come and play with me" the tree said.

"I do not have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need o house for shelter. Can you help me?"

"Sorry but I do not have any house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house."

So the man cut all the branches of the tree and left happily.

The tree was glad to see him happy but the man never came back since then.

The tree was again lonely and sad

One hot summer day, the man returned and the tree was delighted. "Come ang play with me" the tree said.

"I am getting old. I want to sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?" said the man.

"Use my trunk to build your boat." the tree said. "You can sail far away and be happy."

So the man cut the tree trunk to make a boat. he went sailing and never showed up for a long time.

Finally, the man returned after many years. " Sorry my boy. But i do not have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you" the tree said.

"No problem. I do not have any teeth to bite" the man replied.

"I really cannot give you anything...the only thing left is my dying roots" the tree said with tears.

"I do not need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years" the man replied.

 

 "Good! Old tree roots are the best place to lean on and reSt. Come, come sit down with me and rest."

Everybody has an apple tree in his life.
And its your Parents  !!!

 

No matter how busy you are, share some time with parents!

SIAPAKAH MEREKA?

Siapakah orang yang sibuk?
Orang yang sibuk adalah orang yang tidak mengambil berat akan waktu solatnya seolah-olah ia mempunyai kerajaan seperti kerajaan Nabi Sulaiman a.s

Siapakah orang yang manis senyumanya?
Orang yang mempunyai senyuman yang manis adalah orang yang ditimpa musibah lalu dia kata "Inna lillahi wainna illaihi rajiuun." Lalu sambil berkata,"Ya Rabbi Aku redha dengan ketentuanMu ini", sambil mengukir senyuman.

Siapakah orang yang kaya?
Orang yang kaya adalah orang yang bersyukur dengan apa yang ada dan tidak lupa akan kenikmatan dunia yang sementara ini.

Siapakah orang yang miskin?
Orang yang miskin adalah orang tidak puas dengan nikmat yang ada sentiasa menumpuk-numpukkan harta.

Siapakah orang yang rugi?
Orang yang rugi adalah orang yang sudah sampai usia pertengahan namun masih berat untuk melakukan ibadat dan amal-amal kebaikan.

Siapakah orang yang paling cantik?
Orang yang paling cantik adalah orang yang mempunyai akhlak yang baik.

Siapakah orang yang mempunyai rumah yang paling luas?
Orang yang mempunyai rumah yang paling luas adalah orang yang mati membawa amal-amal kebaikan di mana kuburnya akan di perluaskan saujana mata memandang.

Siapakah orang yang mempunyai rumah yang sempit lagi dihimpit?
Orang yang mempunyai rumah yang sempit adalah orang yang mati tidak membawa amal-amal kebaikkan lalu kuburnya menghimpitnya.

Siapakah orang yang mempunyai akal?
Orang yang mempunyai akal adalah orang-orang yang menghuni syurga kelak kerana telah mengunakan akal sewaktu di dunia untuk menghindari siksa neraka.

Siapakah org yg KEDEKUT ?
Orang yg kedekut ialah org yg membiar atau membuang email ini begitu sahaja, malah dia tidak akan menyampaikan pula pada org lain.